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Why Loving Yourself Instead Of Trying To Forgive Is What Sets Your Heart Free

Video Transcript:

Welcome to Allowing Flowering, which is all about embodying your true identity as the field of infinite possibilities, where you are already One with your every heart’s desire and with the most expansive love of all. So, thank you so much for joining me here for this time of Divine inspiration. You’ve intuitively attracted the watching of this video for a reason, so let’s find out why, what Divine insight, Divine guidance, Divine inspiration wants to come through for you right now.

“The Law of Attraction Treats My Imagination as Reality.” “The Universe, which is responding to the thoughts you are thinking, does not distinguish between a thought from your observation of some observed reality, and a thought brought about by your imagination. In either case, the thought equals your point of attraction, and if you focus upon it long enough, it will become your reality.”

All right, and let’s go ahead and pull a “How to Love Yourself” card, from the Louise Hay positive affirmation cards. What positive affirmation does the Divine have for you at this time?

“I forgive all past experiences.” “I accept all that I have created for myself–My past, and my present. I am willing to allow my future to happen.”

And you can change what shows up as your future, based on, again, your thoughts in the present moment. And one of the things about forgiveness here, “I forgive all past experiences,” and that can mean all past mistakes as well, in regard to something you feel was a past mistake on your part, or it could have been past mistakes on the part of others, etc., but ultimately, what real forgiveness really means, it’s not letting somebody off the hook, it’s not “Not” holding someone accountable, it’s about loving yourself anyway.

To quote/unquote “forgive yourself” or to quote/unquote “forgive someone else,” what it really means is to love yourself anyway, that although this happened and you feel how you feel about it, you’re still choosing to love yourself, and you’re not allowing anything to divide you from this love, this solidness of love that you have for yourself. And that means that love is flowing through all parts of you, and if there is any part of you that’s holding onto something such as a grievance, even though it’s justified… EVEN THOUGH it’s justified, you deserve your own love and nothing changes that. Nothing changes that you deserve your own love.

And so, in other words, to hold on tightly to feelings that don’t feel good to us, even though, even when they’re justified and absolutely valid, because they are, you don’t want to let that block you from allowing the natural love for yourself to be flowing through that part of you as well. And really, that is the true essence of what real forgiveness really is. It’s not sweeping nonsense under the rug and letting people get away with things or forgiving and forgetting, and then letting someone walk all over you or walk all over you again, or continue to mistreat you or even abuse you, that’s not what it’s about. It’s not meaning an absence of healthy boundaries, in fact, it means having the ultimate healthy boundary, which is healthy love for yourself first at your foundation, and not allowing anything to divide you from that love for yourself at your foundation.

And if you find that in your experience, something is creating that sense of division within you from your sense of solidness of love, wholeness of love within and as yourself, that you’re allowing yourself to love yourself, even in those feelings, which restores you back to the wholeness of love. That has nothing to do with anybody else, that’s an inner process. And you just hear so much about forgiveness and so many misconceptions about it and this idea that, “You’re supposed to forgive”. Well, that’s actually not even true. You’re not obligated to forgive anyone, so you are free to release that burden of misappropriated obligation off of your mind and heart now if you’ve been feeling this way. What is important is that you are loving yourself anyway, that’s the point. And in fact, even if you wanted to let go of some grievance, even if you wanted to do so, you wouldn’t really be able to truly do so unless you were loving yourself first anyway.

So, ultimately, one way or the other, it comes down to that being the most powerful element of it, that you stay whole within your love for yourself. And you don’t have to allow your past experiences to continue hijacking your thoughts and continuing on with thought patterns that don’t feel good to you that might be influencing the creation or attraction or bringing about of things in your life that you don’t want. You can get off of that train of thought, out of that pattern. You can break that pattern, by becoming aware, right in the midst, right in the middle of the pattern. It’s not about trying to resist the pattern, it’s not about trying to change it, it’s about becoming aware of how you really feel, your true thoughts, your true feelings, what is true for you, and your experience, becoming aware of the patterns that are taking place within you without judgment, just noticing them with observation.

And as you hold this space of nonjudgmental awareness of love, you can see how something amazing can happen when you do this. You can begin seeing those patterns, even long-standing patterns and feelings that are gripping you and feel terrible, beginning to just ease up, unravel right before your eyes and dissolve right before your eyes, back into the space of love, and you are free. And the more you do this, the more you free yourself and you free up the space of your own thought energy, your own energy of focus, your own emotional energy. This returns you to a space of clarity of emotional freedom, where you feel empowered and know that you are free to begin anew in each new moment as it shows up as the one moment of now that is filled with infinite possibilities to create what you desire in your life, to actually get your focus on feeling good, feeling the way that you want to feel and creating that in your life from henceforth.

So, all right. Thank you so much for joining me here for this time together. I truly appreciate it, and I truly appreciate you, and if you find this content inspirational and of value to you, please do remember to like, comment, share, subscribe, click the bell to receive notification of future video uploads and updates, and if you’re already a current subscriber, thank you so very much. I truly love and appreciate you very much, and I cherish and treasure deeply having you in my life.

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Again, thank you so much, and I wish you many beautiful blessings and many beautiful allowing of flowerings of the beautiful good that you desire in your life.

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